Undoubtedly, marriage is a huge milestone in everyone’s life but getting married is not the only goal. There are a number of things that you have to do, a number of goals to carry out. So here is a gentle reminder. We would like to share with you that there are plenty of amazing things to experience other than, or in addition to, getting married. These even play vital role in your married life. Various factors determine the bliss of successful marriage.
Here, we have listed a few of them that you must achieve.
Do something for the those who have brought you up – Your parents
Before you indulge into the complications of married life, give some time to your parents. Once you get married you will rarely find time. With increasing responsibilities, it becomes difficult to find time for others.
A small gesture of love and concern. Take your parents on a vacation or just a dinner somewhere. It will be your turn to treat them specially.
A property that is just yours
Sign a lease for an apartment. The one that is completely yours. Do not involve your siblings, parents, siblings, roommates or friends. It doesn’t matter if it’s the smallest one in existence, because it is still yours.
Save yourself from becoming a loser. A person who is not well established is actually not ready for marriage.
Stand up for what is yours
Never be hesitant in asking for a raise when you know you deserve it. Especially when you are the one to bring it up. You know your capabilities and potential. If today you are unable to stand up for what is meant to be yours, how will you stand up for others. Learn to raise your voice for yourself because tomorrow you may have to represent a family.
Adjusting at places that pull you out of your comfort zone
A job or promotion that pulls you out of your comfort zone is a big challenge. A new city or a country where you barely know anyone. Accept it and face the challenge.
Stand up again after facing downfall
If you never hit rock bottom, you would never be where you stand today. At times in life, you face situations when the world around you is covered with a thick fog. Downfall, failures, miseries, grieves seem to surround you. You feel utterly alone or hopeless. However, when you master the courage to revive from such a situation, you realize that it was really an important phase of your life. Today when you look back, you realize that hitting rock bottom was the best thing that ever happened. It introduces you to your own self.
Realise your passion
Realizing your passion is one of the most important milestones. Sometimes, like a butterfly, we realise it when we least expect it. People always get attracted to people who are passionate about something. Having a passion is really alluring. The problem is, sometimes we are clueless about it. It may be music, Teaching, Writing, sports, cooking etc. Think about it, draw conclusions and work on your passion.
Grab your dream job
The first job is undoubtedly a blessing but there is something bigger. After graduating and getting your first job, the milestone of getting your dream job is really big. It is not just a dream come true but also a big milestone. You will not only feel high when you achieve this milestone – but will also be proud of yourself! We know how difficult it is to face an interview, appear for exams and finally the selection. So, if you make it to the end, you are really successful.
Give health a priority
Embark on a journey to lose weight. Get in shape. After years of labour your body truly needs to be healthier. Try to make a huge physical change that you want. A major haircut, a piercing, a tattoo, etc will surely help. Spend time on your health. Regulate your diet. Fitness should be your goal. Go for things for which you never found time. Join a gym or yoga class. Look for things that will make you healthier and happier.
Get a health insurance plan for yourself. The health insurance plans have various benefits. These are just like icing on the cake. You can also take family floater health insurance plan. This will really prove beneficial for your family. A secure and planned future is always better.
Fighting the evil in you and building up spirituality
Feel genuinely happy when your best friend hits a huge milestone. Learn not worry about the small bout of jealousy you feel over it. Fight against all the things that disturb you or turn you uncomfortable. Try discovering spirituality in your life, it may be through an organized religion, a book etc. Reach a level where you can accept your flaws. Learn to admit your mistakes. Overcome feelings of hatred, jealousy etc.
Plan a vacation
Holidays are affordable once you are working well. Give time to yourself. Plan a vacation out of your busy schedule. It not only gives you time to relax but also rejuvenates your energy. The beautiful scenes refresh your soul. As result when you return back to your tedious and busy life you feel fresh. Go somewhere you have always dreamed about. A group of friends to accompany you will be a real bliss.